Since there is no way for vlc to do what i needed it to do, i am looking for alternative.
Someone suggested:
Bomi multimedia player
bomi player does not even have the separate player and video feature.
celluloid
celluloid also has got not separate player and video feature.
smplayer…
features are unstable. play faster speed and video forward seek does not work when video was send to hdmi monitor . when i stop playing video, there is still a smplayer “canvas” on hdmi screen (if smplayer will clear out hdmi monitor (stop hogging the screen) when stop playing, it would be good.
i have to try all these 3… 
but none can serve the requirement that i needed.