I did a combination of the two. Previously I opened the ports on the block profile of my firewall, but now I set it to the trusted profile and set up ports 1714-1764 as udp and tcp (keep in mind to set it as permanent and not just runtime rules). I also Disabled always on vpn on my phone.
I use nord vpn because through a family package its free. I guess it doesnt play well with kde connect. Any known solutions other than a different vpn?
I have a vpn set up on the wifi level not the linux machine. I did not disable that vpn and it allows for the connection wich means it was my phone app that is the culprit.
The Nord vpn mesh feature might work if I set it up.