Yes it (unfortunately) is tricky.
Try
pharazon:/raid /mnt/raid nfs users,noauto,nofail,async,noatime,_netdev,x-systemd.automount,x-systemd.device-timeout=10s,x-systemd.mount-timeout=10s,retry=1,x-systemd.idle-timeout=1min 0 0
Hints:
noautois required for “on-demand” mounting (so it doesn’t automount on boot (as root))userorusersis needed so it can be mounted/unmounted as non-root usernofailis needed so it doesn’t complain and wait endlessly while booting (and if not reachable)retry=1is needed so you don’t have to wait shy of 7 days for retries (its default is 10000 minutes)_netdevimpliesx-systemd.requires=network-online.targetasyncallows mem caching and is faster; for immediate syncing usesyncinstead (safer but slower)
For the behaviour of this suggestion, read Automount NFS share on access, again.