Inability to install system, lack of WiFi drivers

Perhaps you could do an offline install.

Then once booted to your installed system, connect your phone to the usb port and use its internet connection to install the required packages.

When you got WiFi up and running, you could install KDE and remove Xfce.
Perhaps the more convenient way would be to create a new user for the “KDE Plasma user”.

See the following articles for how to install and/or remove a desktop environment:

https://discovery.endeavouros.com/desktop-environments/how-to-install-desktop-environments-next-to-your-existing-ones/2021/03/

https://discovery.endeavouros.com/desktop-environments/removing-a-desktop-environment/2021/03/

Edit:
Please have a look at this post as well: