Communication is about negotiation of meaning, interpretation and understanding the intention of the parts involved.
Communicating across a platform like this, using the written words and perhaps across language and other “barriers” and stripped off all body language and facial expressions makes it hard sometimes to understand the intention behind the message.
And particularly humor is not that easily “translatable” no matter what emoji or how many of them you use.
I think in this particular case, the outcome of the negotiation has been rather positive.
It’s been a while since I’ve used cinnamon, but I believe it’s in the settings. Desktop icons maybe?? I think it used to be a toggle switch on and off.