my issues are solved, switching from dunst to xfce4 notification solved all my issues.
.config/i3
Desktop notifications
#exec --no-startup-id dbus-launch dunst --config ~/.config/dunst/dunstrc
alternative if you installed aside with XFCE4:
exec --no-startup-id /usr/lib/xfce4/notifyd/xfce4-notifyd &