it is asking this?
removing 'nodejs-23.9.0-1' from target list because it conflicts with 'nodejs-lts-iron-20.18.3-1'
:: nodejs-lts-iron-20.18.3-1 and nodejs-23.8.0-1 are in conflict. Remove nodejs? [y/N] yes
when I choose No , it loops back and when I choose yes, it fails the upgrade with the message in OP